How to plan a wedding seating chart
Start with the head table — the couple plus immediate family and the wedding party. Place tables for parents and grandparents nearby. From there, group guests by relationship: bride's family, groom's family, mutual friends, work, and so on.
Tips for tricky guests
- Separate exes, ex-friends, and known feuds.
- Place children near their parents — or in a kids' corner if you're going that route.
- Mix two friend groups at the same table to spark new conversations — but don't isolate anyone alone.
- Hand the caterer a table-by-table meal count from your guest list.