How to manage your wedding guest list
Build your guest list in three passes: A-list (must invite), B-list (would love to invite), and C-list (would be nice). Lock the A-list first — these decisions feed every other vendor decision.
RSVP tracking checklist
- Send invitations 8 weeks out, with a 3-week-before RSVP deadline.
- Capture meal preference and dietary restrictions on the RSVP card.
- Follow up with non-responders by phone or text — assume no until they reply.
- Submit final count to caterer 2–3 weeks before the wedding.
Plan ahead with our other tools
Once you know your guest count, head to the budget calculator — it uses guests × $/head to estimate catering. After RSVPs come in, draft your seating chart straight from this list.